Your mother cannot show you how she likes you, this is a real problem, but I am sure she loves you, Ok, your father is not a strong character, your mother is angry with him because of this, but this weak person gave her a very nince and strong characer daugther, you. And I know what you mean because I'm sort of going though the same thing you are but not to that bad. Please consider going to Al-anon or Al-teen. It used to make me cry a lot because, after all, she is my mother. I am a mother of three teens and let me tell you what, it's a constant battle.
Remember to keep things nice, deflating any meanness before it starts. You're just someone who's been dealt a rough hand, and odds are you're trying to do the best you can with it. She said that he was such a bastard to me, only to hurt her. Well, you don't need to think this way. She wants to ask you out. If someone in my family or I becomes sick, she brings us home and gives us soup and gingerale to.
When narcissism interferes, the mirror is reversed. You have your own life to live, and don't need them to do everything for you. Everyone has tough days, gets into a grumpy mood, and mistakenly thinks someone hurt them. Mom is mean to me but not to anyone else. She takes care of our family and loves us very much. This guy made me feel special, and was an angel compared to my ex boyfriends I'm 17 at this point He is truly a wonderful guy.
Sounds like your mother is very jealous of you and she sounds bitter. You appear all grown up to her and she expects you to act like it. One day, you can look at her and say 'i did it mum, im everything you wanted to be, and i did it myself'!!! Try to give space between arguments or after big events that may make them angry. But that doesn't mean that the best or only thing that you can do is either take it or become involved in constant fights that make you feel like the worst version of yourself. With her self-esteem damaged, she began hurting herself. She didn't hold it against me, of course, she always said. I then sneak the letter onto her pillow so when she goes to bed she will find it and read it.
Yahoo Answers Why is my mom so annoying and mean? I forgot to mension, her druggy husband from earlier, used to beat me. This might be the hardest part of the entire situation, but it is also one of the most critical. It's a sexist myth that all mothers must be so self-sacrificing and egoless that they no longer care about their own interests, opinions, or achievements after having kids. Or do you grit your teeth and stagger through them? All the while they're trying to do that, the whole world is delivering messages that they're doing it wrong; telling them what they should do; attempting to undermine everything they say and do. Consult the specific laws for the state and county in which you reside for the rules that apply. Next comes the hardest part. She feels like everyone is being mean to her, but the truth is she is.
He jokes about when I was born. More likely than not, you are not the only reason why your parents are acting mean. You're doing what you need to do to take care of yourself — and contrary to what you may have been told while growing up, there's no shame in that. Most importantly, they want you to be respectable citizens. Wait a while, and do your best to deal with it. If you cool off and act calm, they will too. Remember that you're a valuable person who deserves to be treated with respect and dignity.
When she crapping on about your brother, agree, say 'yeah he is doing heaps good huh' and walk away smiling at the fact that your mother didnt see you get jealous over it. He is in Texas and is the most perfect man alive. I have enough self-esteem problems, I wish my mom would at least try to help, but she doesn't seem to care!!! Tell her it bothers you that she ignores you you feel left out and not loved and it hurts you. Child rights states that all children have the right to express themselves. It's pretty much impossible to always be on the same page as the people who raised you, especially as you get older. And the older their kids get, the more they start thinking for themselves often in response to those incoming messages and needing to express their own individuality, well before they're ready to take care of themselves on their own.
However, I think you need to be respectful to your mother. Although three more years at home seems like forever right now, they are just a fraction of your future. People like that, it's best to give them their alone time, so they eventually realize what they once had is gone ,and they will appreciate that person more. Today even, she bitched about my stuff near the door, so while she was gone I cleaned all of it. In almost every situation a parent is not being intentionally mean. Robin Berman wrote in Goop, this kind of toxic mother. At the end of the day it only matters what you think of yourself and that's all that counts.